Nevertheless for Thy great mercies’ sake Thou didst not utterly consume them, nor forsake them; for Thou art a gracious and merciful God. – Nehemiah 9:31

Brethren, the Israelites seem to have been set forward as a picture of all God’s people. As the foot of the altar was made of the looking glasses of the women, the polished brass of the mirrors being melted down, so it seems to me as if Israel was intended to be a looking-glass in which every one of us might look and see his own image…To what other nation did God give the oracles of His truth? What other tribes did He separate unto Himself to be a people in whose midst He would show forth His glory? What other nation did He bring forth out of the house of bondage with a high hand and a stretched out arm?

Yet with the Lord before their eyes they refused to see Him, and with all His wonders before them they refused to believe. You know, dear friends, that we are always particularly wounded by the unkindness of any to whom we have been specially attentive and generous. We complain, “It was not an enemy for then I could have borne it, but it was thou, a man, mine acquaintance, my friend.” Hard is it to be injured by a child for whom you have endured much self-denial, and to whom you have rendered tenderest love. “Sharper than an adder’s tooth is an unthankful child.” After this fashion Israel offended, and, speaking after the manner of men, the Lord felt it keenly, He was grieved at His heart, because His great goodness to them had been so basely misused. He cries, “O that they had hearkened unto Me,” and in another place, “Hear, O heavens, and give ear O earth, I have nourished and brought up children and they have rebelled against Me.” Such is the language which Scripture puts into the mouth of the Lord, and yet He forgave His provoking people times without number-was He not indeed ready to pardon?

Lord, when we provoke Thee in this way be pleased to show Thyself a God ready to pardon. ~ C.H. Spurgeon

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