“For whoever desires to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake and the gospel’s will save it.” – Mark 8:35

There was a young man who said, “Lord, I will follow thee whithersoever thou goest,” but Christ gave him a cool reception: and there was an older man who said, “Though all men shall forsake thee yet will not I,” and in reply his Master prayed for him that his faith should not fail. Now, you must not promise as Peter did, or you will make a greater failure. But, beloved, this devotion is what Christ expects of us if we are His disciples. He will not have us love father or mother more than Him; we must be ready to give up all for His sake. This is not only what our Master expects from us, but what He deserves from us.

This, also, is what the Lord will help us to do, for He will give us grace if we will but seek it at His hands: and this it is which He will graciously reward, and has already rewarded, in that choice word of His in the twelfth of John, where He says of His disciples in the twenty-sixth verse, “If any man serve Me, let him follow Me; and where I am, there shall also My servant be: if any man serve Me, him will My Father honor.” Oh, to be honored of God in eternity when He shall say, “Stand back, angels; make way, seraphim and cherubim; here comes a man that suffered for the sake, of My dear Son. Here comes one that was not ashamed of My Only-begotten when His face was smeared with the spittle. Here comes one that stood in the pillory with Jesus and was called ill names for His sake. Stand back, ye angels, these have greater honor than you.” …O brothers and sisters, snatch at the privilege of living for Jesus; consecrate yourselves this day unto Him; live from this hour forward, not to enrich yourselves, nor to gain honor and esteem, but for Jesus, for Jesus alone. ~ C.H. Spurgeon

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